When we are born, we are a bundle of questions.
But the world seeks to silence us - or else to tell us what questions we should be asking.
By the time most people have reached adulthood, they've stopped being curious - curiosity replaced with exhaustion and foolish certainty.
We forget to be the fool -
the necessary first step on the journey of wisdom.
- Anna Marie -
Why can't you contact anyone who has passed over?
Some people will promise to be able to contact anyone - I never trust those people.
I can almost always feel where a being is... if I try hard enough... but that does not mean they will speak to me. And the answers aren't always helpful.
Some people take a very long time to cross over.
Some people don't.
Some people, after crossing over, choose to be reincarnated.
Some of them are just stubborn or uninterested in holding an audience.
Some of them know that you will not move on and let them go if they choose to speak to you.
So I never promise.
How can you offer guidance when you don't have any training?
I love this question because too many people are willing to listen to too many people who have absolutely no business guiding anyone.
I don't believe you should work with me unless it feels right to you and to me.
What I do is not about training.
It's about seeing what other people aren't seeing and being able to listen to beings with more wisdom than I have, to be able to become a conduit to divine wisdom.
That said - that does not mean everything I say every time will be right or true. I certainly will do my best to make sure it is, but I have been known to be wrong (less with others than myself).
You should not trust me just because I say you should or because someone else says you should.
You should only trust me if it feels right to.
And even then, you should use your own intuition and logic at all junctions.
What I do is something I've always done - I have answers that often have no physical reason for why I should know them - and I've been called to share that.
I did not see a reason to get certified in someone else's way of doing things instead of just following the path already before my own feet.
That said, it should be noted that I encourage working with therapists and psychologists often.
I don't believe I hold all the answers for anyone.
Just the ones that the people who are called to me haven't found yet.
What kind of success do you have that I should listen to your advice?
If you're asking this question, please don't take any advice from me.
I only want you listening to me if you feel led to, and I'm not looking to prove myself.
Go to someone you innately trust.
But you're welcome back when you no longer want me to jump through hoops for you.
Are ghosts real? If so, why do some people become ghosts while others don't?
Yeah babes.
Quite real.
Ghosts are people who are clinging to this life for one reason or another.
If their thirst for vengeance, for example, is greater than their desire to rest, they very well may cling to life.
Or if the afterlife is not what they expected, and they believe they somehow wasted their life here - or if they didn't accomplish something...
But again - that desire has to be stronger than their desire to move on.
Plenty of people might have had good reason to stay, but if they wanted to move on more, they would have.
Should I get a card reading?
That depends.
Have you tried listening to your intuition?
Are you wanting confirmation?
I believe card readings can be healthy until they take place of our own intuition - or until we're constantly doing more and more, trying to get proof or trying to get different answers.
Card readings should be done once in a while, strategically - if that's all that pops up on your for you page, you're probably getting too many of them and should take a break.
Of course, there are seasons when we need more than others - but there must be a balance.
You interchange words a lot - God, Spirit, Universe... what do you believe in?
I interchange words because I work with a lot of people of a lot of different backgrounds and belief systems.
I try to keep my language inclusive, and I am especially sensitive to people with "God trauma" as I have my own journey with that as well.
I consider myself pagan.
I believe in a "supreme" God, a being who encompasses all - my preferred way to refer to that being is Spirit, although I don't mind God as much as I used to.
I also believe in many, many other things - like lesser gods and many of the "myths" you've undoubtedly learned about in fairy tales.
Can I talk to my Spirit Guides?
Talk? Absolutely!
Hear back? It depends.
Some people have the ability to audibly hear their guides (or other beings). Others just feel them or know they're there or have a completely different way of experiencing them.
Even if you can't have a regular conversation with your guides, there are ways to connect with them, probably some you've never thought about!
But it's much too much to put in this answer.
When I do a post on this, I'll link it here.
Sorry for the wait!
Do you believe in Twin Flames? Do you think I have one?
I'm going to be honest - I hate this question.
But not that you asked it.
The internet has a lot of crappy, horrible information about this topic, and if you're asking, you're probably a victim of that horrible information.
Twin Flames are rare - very, very rare.
Most likely, you are not one.
And if you are, you might question it at first - but you will know. Deep in your bones, you will know.
If you don't, you are not.
Most of the information out there on this topic is bad, and I beg of you not to listen to it.
Too many people choose to stay in really unhealthy dynamics because some idiot with a microphone told them they were just in a TF union.
And let me make it clear - if you are not a Twin Flame, you do. not. want. to be.
If you are, you know what I mean.
It is beautiful and worth it - but it is a hard road, and if your soul did not choose it - it is literally because your soul did not want it (or wasn't ready for it).
Could I be an Empath?
Maybe.
Or you could just be a sensitive (like an empath, but not quite).
Or - you could have just grown up in an abusive environment and your subconsious learned to look for micro-clues for like... everything.
An Empath is someone who can feel the emotions and/or physical symptoms of others.
For instance, they can walk in a room and suddenly feel shoulder pain, look over at someone in the room and know it belongs to them.
Not that every Empath is capable at finding the source so quickly before they know what they are and train up a bit.
A lot of people think they're Empaths because they feel a lot of emotion... or cry when someone else does - but that's not what an Empath is.
An Empath literally takes into their own form the experiences of others without needing to be told about them.
And not just the "bad" ones either.
A true Empath can feel someone else's joy as much as their anger or sorrow.
Again - without being told.
Even if they aren't in the same state as the person and have no context clues to figure out the person's mood.
If this sounds like you, congratulations! You're an Empath!
Please ignore 95% of the information on the internet about our kind.
You don't have to shield 24/7 (you are supposed to use your gift), you are not weak - you just aren't yet trained and are probably lacking in boundaries.
We can fix that, though - let's talk!!
